Why Trust is a Lie

ToddStlllluvsBacon · Sep 13, 2016

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This guy's advice will land you alone at 40, serious relationships are hard, they take practice. Trial and error. Someone who lived by this example would sadly find themselves Ill prepared for what it takes to commit for the long haul. It's not all sunshine and roses I can promise you that.
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He's right don't listen to me ...listen to these people

"Why is 25 the “Magic Number” for Successful Marriages?"

We’ve established that once people hit 25 years old, the divorce rate seems to plummet. But why? Many experts chalk it up to lack of emotional experience, insufficient financial support, and hasty unions.

Jennifer Glass, sociology professor at the University of Texas at Austin, says, “It appears that the cessation of education, early marriage and early parenthood, you’re set up for relationship conflict, financial stress and dissolution.” Glass’ theory ties neatly into Naomi Cahn’s assertion that the continuation of education and late marriage (and consequent late parenthood) are the driving forces behind marital success. It’s a classic case of what goes up, must come down.

Some experts think that the older couples are at the time of their marriage, the more hobbies they’re likely to share in common. Paul Amato, a sociologist at Pennsylvania State University, says, “Older marriages (30s versus 20s) were more cohesive in the sense that they did things together more often as a couple.”

Andrew Cherlin, a sociologist from Johns Hopkins University, supports Amato’s ideas. Cherlin says, “People are more concerned with their own self-development than they used to be. Therefore, people are postponing marriage until everything in their lives is working ‘in order.’ The order means after you’ve finished your education, perhaps after beginning your career… they’re postponing marriage until they think they’re ready for it.”

Perhaps the end of Cherlin’s statement is the most important: “until they think they’re ready for it” is a telling fragment. It implies that couples who rush into marriage when they’re young — perhaps even fresh out of high school, with limited knowledge of their own hopes, dreams, and capabilities — simply lack the experiential tools to know whether or not they are “ready.” They marry because their friends are getting married, because it’s what’s accepted by (or even expected in) the community, and whether or not they’re actually prepared falls by the wayside.

Kay Moffett thinks this may be the root of the problem. Moffett, author of Not Your Mother’s Divorce: A Practical Guide to Surviving the End of a Young Marriage, says, “I advise couples to wait until they’re in their late 20s to marry. This allows for a period of identity exploration and a time to figure one’s self out. Most couples who plunge into wedlock early do so for the wrong reason.”
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Focke-Wulf-190D · Sep 13, 2016

Drgn said:

I thought this whole thing sounded a bit too familiar.

If it's the same girl as it was here, then there really isn't any point in posting here because you're obviously not going to listen.
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Omg... wow loooool

xXx_RPL_Papa_Kog_RPL_xXx · Sep 15, 2016

I had the same issue with a girl I was dating and to tell you the truth I did fell hard for her, but I can't believe that she changedoesn't me so and that's what made me angry. but I now know what not to do.

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