I would like point out that judging is a much different thing to believing that something is not right because of what they believe. If someone steals and I get asked whether I think stealing is right, I should be able to say no, because it's against what I believe to be right, without being accused of judging. Next is, just because ppl are born differently or have become that way (or both) does not make it morally justified. I for instance, and I use this example with the upmost delicacy, if I kid was born Mentally handicapped in some way, and were therefore prone to do things.... Not morally considered ok more often than others, such as swearing and other more extreme things, it doesn't mean we accept the issue as right. Of course we have more understanding for their situation and we should ALWAYS accept the person, it doesn't mean we accept the practice as now, right.