Tiny bit obvious to tell when they immediately take the phone away and play with buttons, especially when you know where those buttons are positioned. Oh well.
That made no sense, but okay. Like i said before, beat his ass. But make sure you can fight first. Because if you cant, youre better off saving face and just breaking it off with the chick.
She's sneaky, deal breaker. You seem like a decent catch and stable, she doesn't want to let that go. Dump her a few weeks after she's feeling better so you don't look like an ass. Then start dating her friends, all of them.