I personally use eharmony. Decided I'd spend the $250 and give it a shot. So far I'm not impressed. I've gone out with a few women I've met using the site and like all things, it's easy to pretend you're someone else. My biggest complaint is that the majority of women aren't exactly honest, especially when it comes to their looks. I'm not shallow by any means, but if you're posting a picture of yourself from 3-4 years ago (and 30-40lbs) then something is wrong. I'm not sure what's so hard about being honest and posting pictures of what you CURRENTLY look like. I don't mind a chick that has a few extra pounds on them, but when they're posting pictures of themselves at a time in their life when they look really different, then it's an automatic block from me. Be honest. You're on there for a reason which means eventually, (should things work out) the truth is going to come out anyway.