Hay, I have a question. Hopefully you guys can help me out. For some reason when I look at myself in the mirror, I feel like I'm not good looking. I also feel like I'm not good enough, that I would never me good enough. The weird part of all this is girls in my school fall for me they flirt with me and I don't get why. I don't see what they see in me, I'm not popular, I'm not smart and I'm not confident. I'm that kind of shy guy that likes to be alone, because I feel great when I'm alone. So what do girls see in me?
Eh, I'm practically the same, but girls don't get to flirty around me, but I'm quite confident, the comment above probably explains it in the easiest and faster way possible lol. Long Way: When ur not confident and u doubt yourself, so when u say, look in the mirror you think that u look ugly, or whatever. It is based on a transmitter in your brain, when that is activated that's when some people get shy... Then people say they can't do anything and then go into 'Early Depression' this 'ED' isn't like normal depression it's where u think that u are aren't good enough compared to the person beside you...(this isn't anything to be worried about)(it's a phase that some people go through) If girls seek to 'Flirt' with you either (as stated above) they would like to know you better or they think u are 'Hot', people do have different tastes, that is also a possibility--- I don't know u well enough so I can't say which one it is for you, your the one that needs to figure it out. Bil/Smoken OuT-
A: If your unpopular and weird then there messing with you B: If your not seen as weird then they genuinely like you.
Judging just by your opening post: your honesty and attitude. Chicks love guys who are frank and earnest, without massive egos. Although narcissists and megalomaniacs have their own undisputed charm too.
Or maybe you have a shard of the all spark and they are all deception thugs disguised as females. If it happened to Shilo, it can happen to anybody.