Well i think we all have been there at some time.You have that one good friend who you trust more than anything .And then what do they do ? They double-cross you, back stab you & kick you when you are down . Do you forgive them ? Or cut ties with them forever ? You are meant to love family and friends unconditionally dispite all their faults , warts & all. But some things done or spoke n
Can be a little too much and cross the line to being shadey & low, down and dirty. Can you put it behind you or thats it you' re out of my life forever. i do forgive people but if they start to take libertys or take me for stupid then i will delete them from my life. i know the saying is to be the bigger person .But you let them get away with it they will do it again. And somehow , someway i will get revenge , i put my life on that fact.
Here are some examples of how even your closest friends are not to be trusted . i had a friend tell me a while ago that she was so angry her friend had helped strip her along with her enemys. And some examples that have happened to me a " so called " friend who i had spent hours up all night till the early hours .Helped her with her boyfriend problems , gave her advice , boosted her up when she was down . Farmed her bullys when she was clan farm.
She out of jealousy which is all i can say it was .Went and told some lies to get me dropped from a clan that i had worked hard to get in.. After my anger subsidded i farmed her for months .Then she became friends with the person who had made her be clan farm.The same person i had farmed for bullying her.Then they both joined in attacking me together.Lol that is the ultimate backstab and lowlife .
But nothing new on kaw right ? We see this action repeated by many. Then my owner of 2 years hired my enemy after knowing all the insults they had said to me.So playing both sides of the fence .The more i thought about it the more angry i got. i just wanted gone and have a fresh owner and no more ties. So i zero'd my account. A few days later i was dropped .Lol now i could breathe again and i came back and rebuilt .And eventually i got a new owner . And this is why now i dont trust too many people on kaw.They all have their own agenda and we all are just to be used for their gain .
And another recent one. They are your friend on one account and kiss up to you. But on another alt account insult you.Thinking you are dumb and cant find out who they are ! There are many wolfs in sheeps clothing out there on Kaw. So my motto is :- always be one step ahead of the game. Play them before they play you !!
You got one thing wrong, you do not have to do ANY such thing as "love unconditionally" If anyone does something wrong to you, guess what you have every right to walk away and never look back Ask yourself "if these people are not my family, would I hang out with them?" If you answer no you might consider going your own way (age permitted) People are capable of horrific acts of violence and it is irresponsible to think just because they're friends and finally you should just continue to love unconditionally No way, love comes with conditions 100% of the time
Re: Warts and allwarche ...watched a Netflix Doc on Jeffrey Dahmer. His dad still loved him even after he got caught killin' & eatin' other folks. You can love someone and still hate their actions. And if you really love them & care you hold them accountable.
Todd , Look at all these rubbish trolls i get trying to use my name to assert them selves.What's so funny is all they can try to do is put down my threads.Yet not got any creativity to write one of their own .To prove that they got more people caring about their captivating threads.Nice shattered sword that you've got there syntex. Seems big stats dont work in your favour if you not got the skill to work them in e.e.But keep buying them stats champ.
Yeah, love does not chose. Even though they did something bad or not, if it is true love you will continue to love them. But true love does not only apply to family and friends. Well in our view anyway... But if it is true love you ought to correct them too, if you can convince them to do good. If not, then maybe someone can do that, someone we might not know yet. But still loving. There are many reasons why people do bad things after all. And, if ever someone did something bad to you, do not fight back. Others might think of this as the worst advice, but look and see. If someone hurt you, they did something bad. They would receive the right punishment for that soon, if ever they continue on those ways. But if you return back by doing bad to them, you also did a bad thing. And you might also receive a punishment for that too, soon if ever you continued doing that. If someone throw a mud, they have mud in their hands. But if you throw one too, you will also have mud in your hands. See? I know there are exceptions in that, but you know what I mean, right? A better example: There was this protagonist (a.k.a hero of the story), who was angry with someone whom he called a "monster" because he kills people. Now if the protagonist killed him, isn't he also a "monster"? Because in his definition, monster kills people, and even though he only killed an enemy, he still killed someone. *A reference from a TV series* But about trust.... Some people are bad, some people are good. But the good ones are hard to find, making other people think that there are none of them anymore. But if you can't find a good person yet, why not be one instead? At least those who are near you can know that there is indeed still a good person. And if they find out that there is one good person around them, they might thought that there are somewhere in the world too... And it might also encourage them to be good since, they are not the only ones left. See? have a nice day
hi Alaisaa , i have noticed that too.With a few people that used gang up against me being nasty etc.But karma got them further down the line .When they all began fighting with each other and are no longer friends ! i believe what you wrote also cause and effect.But sometimes i get impatient and want revenge imediatly .But really i should try learn to try be more calmer and trust in the greater power to handle all things in time. !