Hello, i know this isnt the place to go to with situation like this, but i'd like to ask for an advice as many of you are experienced, and wise. There is this amazing woman that i have been with for 6 years. We started of as really good friends, and a few months later i asked her to be in my life. We had our good times, and bad times, but lately, nothing has been working out between her and i. We constantly argue, and i can tell when i look at her that she's not happy, and she's affraid to tell me because she fears hurting me. Me being the man in the relationship, i would like to let her go, and tell her in the form of a song in hope that she'll understand that i'm ok with her leaving me as i want nothing more than for her to be happy. Well, here is the lyrics.. I'm just a robot I have no fears I lack emotions and I shed no tears I'm just a coma, a deadly sleep My heart is breaking but I just can't weep So dear I want you to cry And I want you to cry for me I don't want you to lie to me And say that it will be alright I want you to say goodbye But please, I want you to mean it I want you to find a man who's gonna treat you right I'm just a virus inside your head You lay awake in your hospital bed I ain't no doctor, but I know you're sick Sick of the fighting and the state I'm in So dear I want you to cry And I want you to cry for me I don't want you to lie to me And say that it will be alright I want you to say goodbye But please, I want you to mean it I want you to find a man who's gonna treat you right.. Any thoughts are welcome, please wall me if anything should be added to the lyrics, and if it's convincing enough for her to understand that is ok for her to exit the door of our love life. Thanks.
The words u use in this song give a lot if negative connotations, maybe use some brighter words. U could instead use a song that's been written by an artist and use their song "someone like you" by Adele is a good one. Hope it works out for u man, I'm rooting for u
I really like you're approach, I like what you wrote, and if you wrote what you're feeling or "lack of feelings" then by all means express it. Good luck to you, and I hope the best of the situation.
Dude just tell her It's not that we're breaking up, it's just I'm downsizing my personal life. So unfortunately I'm gonna be makin some lay offs due to budget probs we're gonna be closing the love dept. I'd be happy to write you a letter of recommendation for future endeavours.
Do not give up, OP! The less you care, the happier you will be. But if you really care and love her, keep telling her at least once day by day. Be the one to calm her when she's sad, Be the one to protect her when she's vulnerable, Be the one to handle her at her worst, Be the one to laugh together with her, Be the one that she wants to hold with her arms, Be the one that calms and understands her patiently, despite the complicated words, or anger and stress she throws. And become the one that she only wants in her whole life. Persist. That is, if you do not give up your feeling on her. Time will tell eventually.
This is not the place for 11 teen year olds to come for dating advice... But seeing as you are here, maybe you should eat some concrete and harden up, that way you could be the man she needs you to be, instead of a little boy making robot poems.. Just my few cents on the matter...
I am no of an 11 year old. Clearly, you didnt care enough to read the whole thing so you say a 'robot poem' when it is a song, not a poem. Whilst your advice is good, read the whole thing before you tell me to 'harden up' . Clearly she is not happy with me, and i'd like to let her go in a way where i can express my feelings toward her. You sir are ignorant, get your fact straight, and then give me an advice.