Now you may think your boyfriend is the one you can trust the most, he is the one you can fall back on.. He may well be these things but never tell him the following; 1)How much that dress you're wearing right now. The one which cost well over £50 and you say you just "threw on". Most boys don't realise why clothes matter to us and can't understand why clothes cost so much. 2)Don't tell him your FULL beauty routine if he asks. Instead simplify it down to; "Oh just moisturiser, lip gloss and mascara." Remember he doesn't want to know you use fake self tanner or about your foundation. 3)Don't tell him about your previous boyfriends. Although yes we do want to make him slightly jealous this is not how we do it. (I'm making a new thread soon about how to make him jealous!) 4)Never tell him of any emotional issues you are going through, those are for your girl friends! You must always be happy with him, he has to feel as though he "makes" you happy! 5)Don't tell him about any illnesses you've had, if you have just been ill and he asks you just say "Oh, I just had a really high temperature". Illnesses are disgusting and he will not want to kiss you if you've been sick! 6)If he asks about your family do not tell him how weird they are! You may want to marry him one day and even though it's just about you and him, he won't want to visit your brothers and sisters if you said they were weird! Just say "Yeah they're ok I guess! What about you?" 7)Don't ever tell him you are bored. If you are with him and nothing has been said, saying "I'm bored" will make it worse because he will go into panic mode and make rubbish conversation. Instead turn to face him and kiss him and that should start some sort of conversation.. 8)Never tell him that he smells, needs a shower or should wash; instead buy him deodorant or shower gel saying; "This really smells good", then he will use it and when he has run out he will be trained to buy the stuff because he knows you like it. (I will cover this more in a later thread How to train your boyfriend) 9)Don't tell him about any sex you have previously had, for all he knows you are a virgin and that should turn him on. And if you feel he isn't as good as your previous boyfriends in bed again do not tell him but try different moves in order for you both to enjoy it. 10)MOST IMPORTANT: Don't tell him you want to break up with him. This will cause him and his friends to hate you. Let him break up with you, to do this you simply need to act really bored with him and if he still doesn't to break up you should give him a try because he obviously loves you in better or worse. Lots of love, Cheryl Penelte. If any of these things have been helpful to you please leave a comment or wall me and we can chat <3 Peace out!
Okay so if this thread turns out to be quite popular I will make other thread of similar kinds: How to make him jealous, How to train him etc. but if anyone has something specific they want me to do please suggest it below <3
That's the idea! I know it sounds stupid but as girls we deal with emotions much better than boys! We shouldn't share our problems with him because we can sort them out and adapt them around HIS lifestyle!
Yes, managing them better by making thirty different variations of each one. I'll stick with my Happy Sad Angry Calm Emotions, thank you very much.
Insane not all of it will be correct to every boy, if your boyfriend wants you to show emotion; congratulations! This is more for if your relationship is falling apart or if you feel your boyfriend doesn't want you <3 x
Note two thing. One, I'm straight, I don't have a boyfriend, I have a GIRLfriend. And two, if a boy shows no emotion than they aren't a boyfriend.
Oh sorry I assumed you were a girl!! Are you interested in you girl friends emotions? Like genuiely interested? Because if you are you must be a good boyfriend!
I'm thinking on asking someone out, but it'll be awkward because we're part of a huge group of friends. So, being in the middle, I just can't do it. X(
Plus, you say to not tell 'him' if you're sick, or to not tell him about any problem. Being a good couple means that you two take care of each other and you guys love each other. You can tell "him" about sickness or problems. "He" can't refuse to help you. If "he" doesn't help you feel better with sickness or help you with problems you have, then "he" probably isn't the one for you. Yes, your girl pals can help, but you would turn to the people you trust first, right? So you turn to your boyfriend and ask for help. If you don't trust your boyfriend as much as you trust your friends, then again, he probably isn't the one.
This is straight out of cosmo almost, worst advice ever. I hope you never make another thread like this.
Wow sorry if I offended people, I guess I promise never to make a thread like this again.. Sorry if I wasted anyone's time through you reading it. I guess it was half jokey half serious but from people's reactions I won't make another thread and if I can if it would please everyone I would delete this thread.. x
@Number 10. Are u kidding? Like really If I didn't like him anymore but he was head-over-heels for me I'd dump him cuz I couldn't take dating someone I DONT LIKE!!! If u don't like him break up with him gently and nicely