A few years ago I met a guy from Kaw. We got together for 2 years+ .. at the beginning he was so sweet and loving. But things changed on the 6th month onwards, no eye contact, no daily text messages.. I gave him chance after chance after he hurt me but things got worst that he started to control what I do, say..resulting in getting scolding every time we met. Recently we broke up, he went Japan for holiday with his family and asked me to go at my expenses for a 50/50 reconciliation and prove to him that I am can have awareness and mindfulness. (Btw, drop handphone in his car will resulted him getting angry and scolding me.) If I didn't go Japan, he said mean I chose to end the relationship. I would have gone if he ask me to go and want me to go. But he didn't think I may not have the money to go. He always tell me don't assume things, yet this time he assumed I have the money. Ended up I paid him half the cost of air ticket as I didn't want to go without a status. Where do I sleep, everything will be so weird? Yesterday I went to his house to see him one last time cause I miss him even though I know we are impossible. He was firm, told me even if I go his house yesterday or today, things won't change. I am heartbroken by a kaw player who has pretty high stats. Hope I am able to find someone who will love and care for me, if not I will remain single forever.
Have you tried PIMD yet? You should be able to meet a nice boy there… Don’t give up on love, loverss. There are plenty of otha fish in the sea.
Sounds like a pretty toxic relationship. You're better off without him. No partner should ever scold you or be violent with you in any way.