It's all about the tentacles. If you get into an altercation with big Z then you need to know if you're fighting 8 or 10 fists. If you're only expecting 8 then you can get Sucker(pun very much intended) punched by the other 2.
I think Zel will find it hard to get a love interest. As he is made of fire any love interest would be instantly incinerated. I don't think the demonic red eyes will help if he has to post a pic for online dating either. What he needs is an asbestos girlfriend which I would imagine are quite difficult to find.
Pretty sure AshesOfEden solved it with Selma Blair. She seems to have just finished played with Zel right here